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How Divya Spandana Has Turned Around Congress's Social Media Game

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A lot has been spoken about Congress's recent social media rise, particularly the shift in tone, language and promptness of Rahul Gandhi's tweets. Many are hailing Gandhi as a rising social media star, courtesy his witty tweets and sharp attacks in recent times. While it's true that popularity on Twitter or any other social media site doesn't guarantee electoral success. But it's definitely a good start for a party and a leader of which obituaries were written even until few months ago. Not only has Gandhi and the Congress being able to bring about a significant change in their social media strategy. They've also been able to capture the narrative in the digital space which was until recently being dominated by the ruling Bharatiya Janata Party.

The otherwise digitally savvy BJP too has started to feel the pinch and is trying hard to adapt to this sudden change in narrative.

This spectacular success story can be attributed to Former MP from Mandya, Divya Spandana, who is also known with her screen name Ramya. She's the current Head of Social Media and Digital Communications of the Indian National Congress. Termed a novice during her appointment, Ramya was handpicked by Congress Vice President Rahul Gandhi to take over the reigns of the party's lack luster social media in May 2017. In less than five months, she has not only proved her credentials but also turned the tide completely for the grand old party on social media. The otherwise digitally savvy BJP too has started to feel the pinch and is trying hard to adapt to this sudden change in narrative.

Question is, if Gandhi and his social media rise is so insignificant, why does the Modi government feel the need to field senior ministers to counter him?

This can be witnessed with the jittery behaviour of many senior ministers of the Modi government who seems to be on an overtly defensive mode. Sample this. For every tweet done from Rahul Gandhi's handle that is critical of the Modi government, Smriti Irani would instantly counter it with another tweet as if on cue. Whether it warrants the stature of a cabinet minister to come down to trolling on social media is a different debate altogether. Question is, if Gandhi and his social media rise is so insignificant, why does the Modi government feel the need to field senior ministers to counter him? Irani who had once called Rahul Gandhi a 'failed politician' incidentally lost the Amethi Lok Sabha elections in 2014 to the Congress scion. Quite an irony I must say.

Not only on Twitter, senior ministers like Smriti Irani, Piyush Goel and Nirmala Sitharaman have come out to attack Gandhi by holding regular press conferences. If anything, they've been ceding more ground and attention by doing so. Even in the absence of a fight, their behaviour is giving the electorate a sense that the ruling party is getting jittery and defensive. Interestingly, a recent story done by ANI claimed that Gandhi's rise on his Twitter following, which jumped from 20 lakhs in May to nearly 37 lakhs, within the next two months can be attributed to bots. Same was claimed for the high volume of RTs that Gandhi had attracted, even crossing popular leaders like Narendra Modi and Arvind Kejriwal who are the most and second most followed Indian politicians on Twitter respectively.

In politics, it is perception more than reality that matters.

Now even if we were to believe that what the story claimed is true, it hardly makes any difference as in politics, perception matters more. For that matter, a Twitter audit of Prime Minister Narendra Modi's Twitter account suggests that out of his 35 Million plus followers 13 Million are real where as close to 22 million are fake or bot accounts. As per a CNBC report, close to 48 Million accounts on Twitter are bots. So out 48 Million of those, if nearly 22 Million belong to Modi. You can imagine the magnitude of the smokescreen created by the ruling party to highlight the popularity of the Prime Minister on Twitter. But as mentioned earlier, in politics it is perception more than reality that matters.

The shifting dynamics with growing palpable anger against the government and it's policies is helping the grand old party script it's success on social media. With interesting infographics, statistics, fact checks and prompt and witty responses, the Congress seems to be winning the digital game as of now. Many might feel that the euphoria is far fetched but it clearly helps in building a popularity perception for Gandhi. Specially at a time when elections are due in Gujarat and Himachal Pradesh as well as Rahul's elevation to the Congress President's post. We shouldn't forget that this is not restricted only to social media, but almost all mainstream news channels and newspapers have debated and discussed this sudden change in dynamics. Which in turn, results in a complete media blitzkrieg in spreading the message to the masses that Rahul Gandhi has completely transformed himself as a mature politician.

This has made the ruling party extremely nervous as it goes against their strategy of painting Gandhi as a novice and a failed politician

The impact can be seen on ground given the large number of crowds that he's drawing in all his rallies in Gujarat where he's singlehandedly running the campaign. This has made the ruling party extremely nervous as it goes against their strategy of painting Gandhi as a novice and a failed politician. But this renewed vigour with which Rahul Gandhi and the Congress party is fighting the battle both on the social media and on ground is a welcome change. The electorate seems to be receiving it positively. Whether it translate to a electoral victory is something that we'll have to wait. But a lot of credit for their spectacular rise on social media has to be given to Divya Spandana who seems to be doing a fabulous job. Let's see if they can sustain the momentum and whether it delivers them electoral dividends in the near future.

The opinions expressed in this post are the personal views of the author. They do not necessarily reflect the views of HuffPost India. Any omissions or errors are the author's and HuffPost India does not assume any liability or responsibility for them.


Rain Brings Relief For Smog Covered Delhi

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NEW DELHI -- The air quality in the National Capital Region improved on Saturday to the "poor" level following overnight rain as the concentration of Particulate Matter (PM) decreased. Another government department, however, placed the air quality at "moderate".

The major pollutant, PM2.5, or particles with diameter less than 2.5 micro meter, was recorded at 288 units. The Central Pollution Control Board (CPCB) on Saturday recorded the Air Quality Index (AQI) of Delhi-NCR (at 288) at 10 a.m. as compared to 299 at 7 p.m. on Friday.

Notably, most of the 17 monitoring stations of the CPCB in Delhi found air quality on Saturday in the "poor" bracket. In neighbouring Noida, Ghaziabad and Gurugram, the AQI also showed "poor" category.

Experts say the rain in the national capital on Friday night and early Saturday morning was responsible for the improvement in air quality.

Mahesh Palwat, Director of Skymet, a private weather forecast agency, said air quality had improved due to overnight rain, wind from the northwest and cyclonic formation in Rajasthan.

"The western disturbance has moved away from hills and hill states that have witnessed rainfall and snowfall. So winds from northwest with speed of upto 15 kmph are bringing pollution levels down. The situation will be better day-by-day," Palawat said.

He said that rain always had a washout effect on particulate matter.

According to SAFAR (System of Air Quality and Weather Forecasting and Research), an app instituted by the Ministry of Earth Science, the air quality levels in Delhi improved to "moderate" on Saturday morning.

SAFAR records 24-hour rolling averages of PM10 and PM2.5 and uses this data to estimate the AQI. PM10 and PM2.5 are ultra-fine particles that are the dominant pollutants in Delhi. The acceptable levels of PM10 and PM 2.5 are 100µg/m3 and 60µg/m3 respectively.

The larger particulate matter, measured by PM10, docked at 199 µg/m3 in the morning while PM2.5, which measures very poor and more dangerous particulate matter, hovered around 130 µg/m3.

Dear Indian Politicians, Sex Is Not A National Dirty Secret

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Dr. Mahinder Watsa, please save us.

The nation needs you. Acche Moody if not din might be upon us. But alas, when it comes to the birds and bees, we seem to be going backwards.

Frankly speaking, we need someone like you desperately, a no-nonsense sex columnist, one who still shoots from the hip at the age of 93, to give our netas some straightforward sex talk. And remind them that sex is natural, it's nothing to be ashamed about.

We know India always has had a sex problem, the old Kamasutra meets Victorian prudishness meets Mahatma Gandhi's experiments with sexual control. Our bursting population shows that we are having sex, and lots of it, but we remain stubbornly squeamish about it.

But when the head of IT cell of the ruling party starts behaving like a snickering adolescent as well, we cannot just shrug it off saying we are like that only. This is not the old schoolboys' WhatsApp group with its randy Playboy jokes.

Amit Malviya's latest contribution to the Twitter wars was a collage of Jawaharlal Nehru with a variety of women. Malviya tweeted: "It seems Hardik Patel has more of Nehru's DNA, contrary to what @shaktisinhgohil claimed." Gohil, a Congress politician had said Patidar agitation leader Hardik Patel could not be bought out, because he had the DNA of fellow Gujarati leader Sardar Patel. Somehow Malviya made the rhetorical leap from that to try and paint Hardik Patel and Nehru as both carrying some womanizing gene.

This is not the old schoolboys' WhatsApp group with its randy Playboy jokes.

As it turns out, several of the women Nehru was embracing in that thoughtfully put-together collage were his family members. That, in the world according to Malviya, hugging your sister or niece is Exhibit 1, 2 and 3 in Portrait of the PM as a Man of Lustful DNA is deeply troubling. That he cannot tell the difference between lust and affection is concerning. That he cannot see a photograph of a man putting a tika on the wife of an American president without thinking Dirty Picture is even more worrying.

But it speaks to a larger hang-up. Even if the pictures were of women unrelated to Nehru, so what? Even if Nehru had romantic relations with women, so what? His wife Kamala died in 1936. Nehru survived her by almost 30 years. Why should any of us, least of all Amit Malviya, be bothered about his sex life as long as it did not interfere with his political life?

Why do we have to treat sex like a national dirty secret? Why do we spend so government time and money trying to figure out ways to deny access to porn sites in the name of cleaning up child porn? In the process the Swachh Internet-wallahs provided the good Indian citizen with a handy list of 857 porn sites, a sort of Beginner's Guide to Internet Porn. The International Film Festival balks at films with names like Nude and Sexy Durga. "We had Khajuraho and Kamasutra. Now we can't talk about sex, and the word sexy is abusive," saysSexy Durga filmmaker S K Sasidharan. Our censor board comes up with a list of forbidden words like "masturbating" and haramzada or even "ass". The latest idea is the Har Har Mahadev app, which plays devotional music or chants Allahu Akbar everyone someone tries to access an adult video. The makers obviously did not consider the fact that conversely every time someone hears a bhajan they might now think sex.

In short, why are we so afraid of sex even as we are obsessed about it?

This picture taken on November 18, 2017 shows Hardik Patel (C), leader of Patidar Anamat Andolan Samiti (PAAS), addressing a gathering with his supporters during 'Adhikar Sammelan' at Mansa, some 50 km from Ahmedabad.

The Malviya episode was triggered, of course, by the infamous so-called "sex video" of Hardik Patel in a hotel room with a woman. They seem to be two consensual adults who have checked into a hotel room together. Instead of debating the ethical morality of reservations for Patels as Hardik Patel has demanded, we are debating the morality of his sex life. That's the real scandal here.

Even worse, political columnist Shefali Vaidya has snidely quipped "Hardik Patel's CD, if it is true, should actually be an inspiration to all those young people out there that someone so odious, ugly n talentless has a sex life!" It might be a joke but it's a low blow to go after someone's looks, to insinuate that someone is not good looking enough to have a sex life. It's not that our politicians who are married and producing children presumably not through immaculate conception are exactly Adonises. Or is this plain jealousy that even Hardik Patel is getting some action?

The list of sex scandals and sex CDs in Indian politics is long and checkered and cuts across party lines. Before Hardik Patel there was Rajesh Munat (BJP), Sandeep Kumar (Aam Aadmi Party), Narain Dutt Tiwari (Congress), Abhishek Manu Singhvi (Congress), Raghavji Lakhamsi Savala (BJP), Thomas Varghese (CPM), Gopal Kanda (Independent), Mahipal Maderna (Congress), Sanjay Joshi (BJP/RSS), Amarmani Tripathi (Samajwadi Party and others), Ram Mohan Garg (BSP), Gopinath Munde (BJP). Some of these cases were actual scandals. People died. People were blackmailed. Property was transferred. But some were just affairs and liaisons that became public. Many of them have also been met by protestations of conspiracy and strenuous claims that the CDs are fake. In that sense Hardik Patel was rather refreshing when he said "I am a man, I am not impotent."

In short, why are we so afraid of sex even as we are obsessed about it?

But there's one thing our netas just don't seem to get. Sex, per se, is not scandal. As opined in an Indian Express editorial, "The personal lives of public figures, as long as there is no harassment, impropriety, or quid pro quo involved, do not concern the Indian public beyond their value as salacious gossip." Birds do it, bees do it, even netas do it and we need to get over it. That we have sex on our minds a lot is apparent given that our most Googled celebrity is Sunny Leone and Indians are fifth in terms of most number of daily visitors to Pornhub. Incidentally traffic to Pornhub goes up during Republic Day and Independence Day. Perhaps if we worried less about sex and more about consent, we'd be better off as a nation.

And for those like Amit Malviya, a few simple ground rules. Any picture of a man and a woman together, whether hugging, laughing, or even lighting a cigarette does not spell out S-E-X. Sex and scandal are not synonyms in any thesaurus anywhere. Just remember it's not a scandal just because it's sex. And next time you want to make snide tweets about someone's sex life, real or alleged, check in with the good Dr. Watsa first. It will save you some embarrassment.

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Official Photo Released To Mark 70th Wedding Anniversary Of Britain's Queen

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LONDON, Nov 18 (Reuters) - Buckingham Palace issued a new photographic portrait of Queen Elizabeth and her husband Prince Philip on Saturday to mark their upcoming 70th wedding anniversary.

The couple married at London's Westminster Abbey on Nov. 20, 1947, just two years after the end of World War Two, in a lavish ceremony attended by statesmen and royalty from around the world.

The portrait, taken earlier this month, showed the queen wearing the same dress which she chose for a service of thanksgiving to mark their diamond wedding anniversary held at the Abbey where they were married.

She is also wearing a "Scarab" brooch in yellow gold, carved ruby and diamond which Philip gave her in 1966.

Elizabeth has been married for far longer than any other royal, and the newly-released picture showed the couple framed by Thomas Gainsborough's 1781 portraits of George III and Queen Charlotte, who were married for 57 years - the second longest royal marriage. (Reporting by Michael Holden; Editing by Toby Chopra)

Everyone's Favorite Superhero Family Is Back In 'The Incredibles 2' Teaser

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Disney/Pixar has unveiled the first teaser trailer for “The Incredibles 2,” which promises to bring back the superhero family last seen in 2004.

“It’s fundamentally a story about family,” director Brad Bird said back in July. “The technology has gotten so much better; we can get them close to what we wanted to do in the [original]. It’s like driving a better car.”

The sequel is set to open on June 15. The plot is still unclear, though Collider reported earlier this year that it will focus on the adventures of Holly Hunter’s Elastigirl. Meanwhile, her husband, Mr. Incredible (Craig T. Nelson), will be home caring for baby Jack-Jack. Based on the teaser clip released Saturday, he’ll have his hands full.

Watch the new teaser above.

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The Absolute Worst Excuses Ever For Calling In Sick

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Who among us hasn’t, on occasion, called in sick when you really weren’t? Sick time is often a use-it-or-lose-it benefit, and that fuels the temptation to hit the snooze button and just call in sick.

Using sick days to catch up on sleep, run errands or kick off the weekend early has become so commonplace that more than a third of full-time workers polled by CareerBuilder said they have gone into the office when they were legitimately sick so they could save their sick days for when they’re feeling better. 

But apparently some people lie better than others. CareerBuilder’s annual survey, which covered a 12-month period ending in September, found that 40 percent of workers had claimed to be sick when they actually weren’t, and 38 percent of employers had checked up on workers who called in sick. And how exactly did they do that? Easy-peasy: 43 percent of bosses busted an employee who faked being sick by checking out their social media feeds. 

Of course, some employees offered some pretty outlandish excuses for not showing up at work. Here are some of the more dubious ― or creative? ― excuses that employers in the survey reported hearing:

A bear was in the employee’s yard, and they were afraid to come out.

The employee had to reschedule a manicure because some of her artificial nails fell off. 

The employee left all his clothes at the laundromat and had nothing to wear.

There was a solar eclipse and the employee wasn’t sure it was safe to leave the house.

A dog swallowed the employee’s car keys, so she was waiting for them to come out.

The employee couldn’t squeeze into her uniform and called in “fat.”

The employee broke his arm wrestling a female bodybuilder.

Harris Poll conducted this survey on behalf of CareerBuilder, questioning 2,257 hiring and human resource managers and 3,697 employees.

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For Some Reason, Macklemore Has A Naked Justin Bieber Painting

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If art is in the eye of the beholder, then maybe Macklemore has problems with his vision.

The man who gave the world hits like “Thrift Store” and “Same Love,” happens to have in his possession a painting of Justin Bieber naked with maple syrup and a pancake on his penis.

Yes, we know: pictures or it didn’t happen:

Macklemore purchased the bizarre painting last year, and explained why on Thursday’s episode of “Watch What Happens Live” on Bravo.

“I bought it on Etsy as a white elephant Santa gift that at the end of the night just stayed at my house,” Macklemore told host Andy Cohen. “No one took it.”

Macklemore claims to be very happy with his purchase. “I’m very proud of it,” he said. “And it’s become a huge headline. Like, Macklemore owns a naked Justin Bieber dick pancake painting.”

The rapper claims the painting is in his bedroom, where it serves a utilitarian purpose.

“So it goes right above my bed and whenever I’m with my wife intimately, I can always stare at it if I want to control my orgasm,” he said. “Just slow it down.”

Watch the whole segment below:

Macklemore previously told TMZ he considered the painting to be “an investment piece.”

“I think that that painting is going to be worth a lot of money,” he said. “I search eBay and Etsy for fine pieces of art. It cost me about $20. I’m pretty sure that the minute that the Justin Bieber album went number one, I’m pretty sure that painting went to about $30, $33. Do the math, man.”

The pancake penis painter, Dan Lacey, told Vulture last year that there’s a deeper meaning to his work.

“To me, pancakes happen at a spiritual level, sometimes expressing themselves as eroticism.” 

However, he may have tipped his hand at his next work on Twitter Friday. 

Street Art Mural Of Kevin Spacey Will Soon Be Erased

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A mural of Kevin Spacey will soon vanish from the side of a building in the northwest England city of Manchester.

Anonymous street artist Akse revealed via Facebook on Friday that he will replace his 2015 piece “as a result of the recent allegations” of sexual misconduct against the Oscar-winning actor.

The decision to remove the mural, which shows Spacey as “House of Cards” character Frank Underwood, was made jointly with the wall’s owners, Akse added.

Akse painted the mural on the building, owned by Nurhbai and Co. Accountants, in May 2015.

“We love it!” the company said via Facebook on its completion:

But as sexual misconduct claims mounted against Spacey, owner Hussain Nurbhai was “adamant” it be replaced, the BBC reported.

Akse has not revealed when or how he will paint over the piece, which formed part of his “Psychopaths” series. HuffPost has reached out for comment.

Bryan Cranston’s “Breaking Bad” character of Walter White, and Christian Bale’s character of Patrick Bateman from “American Psycho,” also are featured in Akse’s project in Manchester.

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Pregnant Dachshund's Maternity Photos Are Beyond Glorious

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A pregnant dachshund is raising the game when it comes to maternity photoshoots.

Three-year-old Cindi posed for her owner, professional photographer Vicki Miller, among flowerbeds and fields, showing off her heavily pregnant body.

When Vicki shared the photos of the maternity shoot on her Facebook page, the sausage dog became an instant internet sensation, with her photos accruing more than 8,000 likes.

Just look at that smize.

Vicki, who is from North Queensland, Australia, tells HuffPost UK that animals have played a huge part in her life and she’s often included them in client photoshoots, so when Cindi fell pregnant it seemed like the obvious choice to photograph her.

“I thought it would be super cute and pretty funny to give her a maternity shoot of her own,” she explains.

For the shoot, Vicki enlisted the help of her friend Gayette Burt, who runs a local florist, to create a flower crown for her beloved pup. 

“Most of my expecting mothers wear them for sessions which is the main reason I wanted Cindi to have one,” Vicki explains.

It’s not the first time dogs have starred in maternity photoshoots - and (hopefully) it won’t be the last.

In 2016, Brazilian photographer Ana Paula Grillo photographed Lilica the pregnant pooch (the photos are not to be missed, check them out here). And then, of course, there was Fusee who starred in some stunning photos with her owner which promptly went viral on Twitter.

Discussing the response to the snaps of her pup, Vicki says: “My followers do love when I create photographs with unique twists so I knew there would be a little love for it, but I honestly was not expecting the huge response.

“It’s been so nice reading comments from people saying how it gave them a laugh at the end of a bad day. It was only ever done to give us something cute to look back on so the fact that it’s bringing joy to others is lovely.”

Cindi is due any day now and once the puppies are born, Vicki hopes to shoot some more adorable photos starring the photogenic dachshund and her babies.

Needless to say, we can’t wait.

Book Snobs Should Stop Reading Books And Start Listening To Them

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I used to be one of those people who cocked a judgmental eyebrow at 'readers' of audiobooks. Any book other than the dead-tree edition was for amateurs, as far as I was concerned.

Sure, I recognised the space-saving benefits of the e-book, having lugged a backpack filled with more novels than clothes (or so it felt) on more than one overseas trip. So I respect the common sense of the virtual book when it comes to travelling light, not to mention the environmental merit of renouncing paper books for the digital variety.

Still, I've never been a fan.

I was one of those insufferable wankers who'd wax on about the scent of 'real' books. And I wasn't choosy; it could be the freshly pulped smell of bricks-and-mortar book stores, or the musty odour of second-hand book stores and university libraries.

I also loved the crisp feel of the pages and the fun little trappings like bookmarks and bookplates (even if, as a child, I did think 'ex libris' had something to do with the zodiac). I would lovingly flatten out the curled covers of second-hand books that came into my care and restore them with clear contact. I also delighted in the way a 2B pencil (an HB being far too brutal) impressed itself oh-so-gently upon the book's margins where I wrote my delicately incisive notes.

Then I had children. And they may as well have been 'Children of the Corn' as far as my freedom to read books was concerned. Through the years of sleep deprivation, all I could bring myself to do of an evening was to stare blear-eyed at the latest reality-TV cooking show, a string of drool quivering from my bottom lip.

The languishing piles of books 'to be read' on my bedside table grew into towers, or more pragmatically, very tall drink coasters. After happily tripping through a Victorian novel a week, all I could manage was one chapter of airport fiction every couple of months -- and only then after my youngest child had turned three.

Yet, how passionately I mourned the life of mind I had lived through books; the sustained immersion in another person's creative world. I grieved this death because I was convinced that quiet time with the printed page was the only form true reading could take.

Audiobooks might be a whole lot more accessible, especially given the ceaseless obligations of parenting, but -- much like that other peculiar auditory pastime, guided meditation -- I'd decided it might be okay for other people, if you're into that sort of thing, but it wasn't for me.

Why, oh why, did it take me so long? I've gone from barely scraping through two to three novels a year, to enjoying three to four a month.

It's funny, because I'd never been a Luddite about anything else. I'd been an early adopter of almost every technological advance, from the video recorder (yes, I am that old), to online banking, to email, to blogging, to social media. I even curated podcast playlists for long car trips. Maybe it was because I'd been a student of literature, with its attention to, quite literally, the words on the page, but this anarchic clinging to paper-based technology was both bloody-minded and impractical.

When exactly was I going to have the time to caress these lofty tomes again? To sniff their woody pages? It was a nostalgic indulgence that would be immortalised evermore in the years before parenting ate up all my free time.

A few months ago I heard the novelist, essayist and journalist Robert Dessaix speak at the Melbourne Writers' Festival on the subject of leisure. What the hell is leisure? Forget a quiet Sunday morning doing the crossword. For us, taking a crap without a four year old standing directly in front of you asking the bleeding obvious, to wit, "Mummy, are you doing a poo?", is about as much leisure as any parent can hope for.

"Do what gives you pleasure," exhorts Dessaix. "Be idle." I snort derisively at this. Not only are you always doing something as a parent, you are usually doing several somethings at the same time. You drive the car, adjust the temperature by the minutest increments for your three-little-bears offspring ("too hot!", "too cold!"), adjudicate back-seat squabbles, pass out food/drink bottles AND change lanes all at the same time. You can forget that fantasy of ever doing a single thing on its own again. Like reading.

So I decided it was time to take the plunge; to cross over to the grubby, digital dark side and embrace the audiobook. And it has been a revelation. Why oh why did it take me so long? I've gone from barely scraping through two to three novels a year to enjoying three or four a month. All those intellectually dead times that accompany parental domesticity -- sweeping, vacuuming, clothes-pegging, toy-corralling, bath-running, child-herding, shopping, cooking, driving to and fro -- have become opportunities to read. To reignite my formerly buzzing synapses and thereby keep me sane.

A puritanical reader (or crunchy parent) would probably decry my not giving either the book or the children (not to mention the driving) 100 percent of my attention. This messy multi-tasking also flies in the face of the seeming 'right-minded' shift towards the slow versus the fast. Mindfulness. Being in the moment. Yeah, right. Such retro-luxuries are the leisurely preserves of those who don't care for small children.

I read somewhere that parenthood has two parts: the relationship and the work. The relationship part is wonderful; the work part sucks. It's mundane, frequently stressful, often soul-destroying, brain-numbing and infuriating (think: picking strands of Spaghetti Bolognese flung by a bratty four year old out of shag carpet with your fingers). Audiobooks help make the grunt work bearable so that you can better enjoy the wonderful relationship stuff.

Consider it a life hack for the child-weary.

Here are some tips for getting some life-changing audiobook magic in your life:

  • Join the library. Your local library will have one or more services where you can download audiobooks for free, as well as place holds on books you are waiting to borrow.
  • Join another library. You might be eligible to join the library near work as well as one near home. Even though libraries often use the same audiobook service, the book selection will vary. The more libraries you can join, the broader the variety of titles available to you.
  • Join a monthly subscription service like Audible. You get only one title per month for your $14.95, but being a member means you can purchase additional titles for only $14.95, which is far cheaper than full price. They also offer the broadest selection.
  • Check out the free options online for audiobooks of classic novels, usually those out of copyright.
  • Keep earphones everywhere -- on your bedside table, in your handbag, in your glove compartment -- so you're always equipped to read/listen.
  • Activate Bluetooth in your car and pair it to the device where your audiobooks are stored (i.e., your smart phone) -- it will automatically play your book at the point where you left off.
  • Direct the speakers to the front right, closest to the driver so you don't annoy the kids.
  • Keep the volume way down when listening to authors like Christos Tsiolkas, unless you want to be explaining some pretty naughty words and adult concepts to your kids.

Enjoy your return to reading.

Isn’t It The Govt's Job To Prevent Threats Made On National TV, Asks Shyam Benegal

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Activists of Akhil Bhartiya Samagike Kshatriya Bhaichara protesting three day Dharna against Sanjay Leela Bhansali's upcoming film Padmavati, at Rajghat, on November 18, 2017 in New Delhi, India.

As so-called affiliates of fringe right wing groups continued to make public threats towards actress Deepika Padukone and filmmaker Sanjay Leela Bhansali, state government authorities, police and political parties failed to reign the thugs in, and watched silently as the protests spiralled out of control.

In a latest bid to gain legitimacy, members of the Akhil Bhartiya Kshatriya Mahasabha (ABKM) announced a Rs 1 crore reward for anyone who burns Padukone alive.

"Deepika should know how it feels like to be burnt alive. The actress will never know the sacrifice of the queen. Any person burning her alive will be given Rs 1 crore. We demand that office- bearers of the organisation be shown the movie before it is released," ABKM's youth wing leader Bhuvneshwar Singh said.

Members of ABKM burnt over a hundred effigies of Padukone, who plays the titular character in the film 'Padmavati', and shouted slogans.

Police officials guard filmmaker Sanjay Leela Bhansali's house at Nana Nani Chawk in Versova, on November 16, 2017.

Yesterday, a BJP office bearer from Haryana announced a 10-crore bounty on the heads of Padukone and Bhansali, an inflammatory threat that has shocked people, but failed to attract the attention of lawmakers.

Surajpal Amu, the party's chief media coordinator, has even threatened to "break the legs" of Ranveer Singh, who Alauddin Khilji in the film.

Such has been the violent posturing by fringe groups who are vying with each other to become mainstream by forcing the release date of the film to be postponed that filmmaker Shyam Benegal yesterday questioned the government for its silence.

Activists of Akhil Bhartiya Samagike Kshatriya Bhaichara protesting three day Dharna against Sanjay Leela Bhansali's upcoming film Padmavati, at Rajghat, on November 18, 2017.

"Will people ask for heads publicly and offer money for the lives of those who disagree with them, and the state will do nothing to prevent it? The Home department and the police should move in immediately and offer protection. That would be the thing to do. When chief ministers and members of government adopt such an approach, what else will the administration do," Benegal told The Indian Express.

Meanwhile the Shri Rajput Karni Sena, another group protesting the release of the film they claim have distorted historical facts, have deferred their 1 December 'Bharat Bandh' call. "Once the new release date is announced, we will again apply our full strength and force to stop the release of Padmavati," said Lokendra Singh Kalvi, the group's founder.

People reached with disgust, shock and anger on Twitter.

CBFC chief Prasoon Joshi has said "it is disappointing that the film 'Padmavati' is being screened for the media and getting reviewed on national channels without the CBFC having seen or certified the film."

"It's myopic to treat the certification process haphazardly to suit convenience. On one hand, holding the CBFC responsible and pressurizing to accelerate the process. And on the other hand, attempt to subvert the very process, sets an opportunistic precedent," he said.

(With inputs from agencies)

7 Odd Things That Happen To Your Body When It's Cold Outside

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Unless you’re blessed to live in a magically warm climate all year round (looking at you, Californians and Floridians), frostier weather is rapidly approaching. And that can come with some unexpected mental and physical side effects.

Changes in weather come with a lot of changes in your body and mind, according to Dr. Albert Ahn, a clinical instructor of internal medicine at NYU Langone Health. These shifts are important to keep in mind so you stay healthy all season long.

We chatted with Ahn about how the winter affects your body so you know what to look out for when the temperature drops. Below are some changes you may not have realized are happening:

1. You burn more calories.

Research shows that your basal metabolic rate ― AKA how many calories you burn just by existing, without doing any excess activity ― increases slightly in colder temperatures. That’s because it takes more work for your body to stay warm. But don’t count on this to be part of a weight loss plan, Ahn said.

“It’s not significant enough to notice a difference, but you do tend to burn more calories when the body is trying to keep itself warm,” he explained.

2. Your fingers ‘shrink.’

Ever notice how your rings feel a little loose during those wintry days? It’s not in your imagination. Extremities, such as your fingers and toes, tend to swell up in hotter climates, Ahn explained. 

“You tend to see less of that in the winter,” he said. “Cold weather tends to constrict the blood vessels to preserve body heat and maintain core body temperature.”

That might mean you end up getting slightly less blood flow to your extremities, which could make your fingers feel like they’re smaller, he added.

3. You could experience extra pain in your extremities.

Some people experience a condition called Raynaud’s disease, which makes parts of your body feel numb and cold in response to colder climates or stress, Ahn pointed out. This usually occurs in areas like your hands, feet and ears, and it’s caused by the smaller arteries that supply blood to the skin constricting excessively in response to the weather.

“It’s not dangerous, but it can be very uncomfortable or painful,” Ahn said. Lifestyle modifications, like wearing proper winter outerwear and avoiding prolonged periods in the cold, can help ease the symptoms, he noted.

4. Your vision might suffer.

Mind your eyes. Exposure to excessively cold temperatures, cold wind and snow may affect your vision, according to experts. Sun bouncing off snow piles or banks may also pose a risk by potentially causing a cornea injury or burn. Make sure to wear proper eyewear when participating in snow sports and try to wear sunglasses when you can.

5. Your face gets red.

If your nose looks like Rudolph’s after being out in the winter air ― or your cheeks, for that matter ― it’s likely because the blood in those areas is being redirected to more vital areas, like your heart or lungs. When you get warmer, the blood returns back to its normal locations, flushing you in the process.

6. You might be at a greater risk for a heart attack.

This is usually more common for older adults and those at risk for cardiac issues, but it’s something everyone should still keep in mind, Ahn said. 

“This increased risk isn’t just due to exertion because you’re shoveling snow,” he explained. “When the body is trying to preserve heat, it does increase the pressure on the heart. It has to work harder to pump blood to extremities. It can also increase blood pressure marginally.”

Ahn recommends practicing a healthy lifestyle and staying vigilantly aware of heart attack symptoms (you can read a list of them here).

7. You may experience a drop in mood.

The winter blues are real. A decrease in temperature likely means fewer daylight hours. That can lead to a dip in mood due to a lack of Vitamin D, Ahn said. This can range from mild to severe, with the more extreme cases likely being seasonal affective disorder, a depression-related mental health condition most commonly associated with the winter months.

Ahn recommends plenty of exercise and spending as much time as possible exposing yourself to daylight. Vitamin D supplements may also help with milder mood issues, he said. Check with your doctor if you feel like your mood is severely impacted and it’s interfering with your everyday life. You may need more targeted mental health treatment.

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'Stranger Things' Cast Answer Fans' Most Burning Questions About The Show

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The “Stranger Things” stars are here to answer fans’ strangest online queries.

Gaten Matarazzo, who plays Dustin, joined Joe Keery (aka Steve) in responding to the weirdest Google searches about them and the Netflix sci-fi horror series.

The questions in the Wired magazine clip ranged from the sensible (such as whether the show is based on a true story) to the silly.

The more bizarre questions prompted this response:

Check out the full Q&A session in the clip above.

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Besieged Syrians Are Eating Trash To Survive

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Hala al-Nufi, 2, shown here on Oct. 25, suffers from a metabolic disorder that is worsening due to the siege and food shortages in Syria's eastern Ghouta. 

Desperate Syrians trapped in eastern Ghouta have started eating garbage to survive as a government-imposed siege tightens around the dilapidated Damascus suburb like a noose. Many famished children in the region have fainted from hunger in recent weeks, according to a new report from the United Nations’ World Food Programme.

Heart-wrenching images of Sahar Dofdaa, an emaciated baby girl who died there last month, drew international attention to the plight of Syria’s 400,000 besieged residents. Another boy starving under the siege recently committed suicide, the WFP said.

As millions of American families sit down to enjoy Thanksgiving feasts this week, the men, women and children of eastern Ghouta, at the mercy of Syrian President Bashar Assad’s regime, will continue to starve as they resort to “coping strategies,” such as consuming refuse, animal fodder and expired food remnants.

Assad has kept the rebel-held region outside Damascus under complete siege since 2013, shortly after a sarin gas attack by his forces killed an estimated 1,429 people there. Hundreds of civilians ― more than half of them children ― have died from food and medication shortages since the start of the siege, the Syrian Network for Human Rights said in a report last month.

The regime has intensified its blockade in recent months, preventing its own desolate citizens from fleeing and denying access to urgently needed aid supplies. Only six aid convoys have reached eastern Ghouta this year, according to the Syria Deeply news site.

Syrians in eastern Ghouta inspect the damage after an airstrike reportedly carried out by the Assad regime on Monday.

As witnessed in the beleaguered city of Aleppo, Assad’s siege warfare is a strongman strategy to exert dominance and defy those who oppose his rule. The civilian toll is staggering. Thousands died in Aleppo as Syrian and allied forces demolished the city with airstrikes and barrel bombs, turning the once-vibrant metropolis into a ghost town of rubble and bloodied bodies.

Now experts fear that eastern Ghouta ― also under brutal assault by the regime ― is headed toward a similar catastrophic transformation. With nowhere to run, scores of civilians were reportedly killed by a series of aerial attacks over the past week, and hundreds more were injured. More than a dozen children were among the dead.

Escalated fighting that began Nov. 14 “is expected to further deteriorate the dire food security situation,” the WFP warned. The people of eastern Ghouta, once a thriving agricultural zone, “are now forced to depend solely on their alarmingly depleted stocks of food and on their limited own production.” Prices for the scarce supply of food have skyrocketed as the crisis deteriorates.

My daughter cries because she knows ... [she] will sleep with an empty stomach. Resident of eastern Ghouta

In many households with multiple mouths to feed, “priority is given to children with adults often skipping entire days without eating,” the report added. Some families have even been forced to adopt “rotation strategies” in which the children who eat one day will not eat the next day.

“I am forced to divide the scarce food I have, rotating between my 13-year-old daughter and my orphan grandchildren of two and three years of age,” one Syrian woman told the WFP. “My daughter cries every time I lock her door because she knows today is not her turn and will sleep with an empty stomach.”

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Experts Break Down The Difference Between Google Home and Amazon Echo

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The world is so full of tech that sometimes it’s hard to keep up. Some of us struggle to grasp the basic features of the iPhone X, let alone brief ourselves on whichever smart home device is next to hit the market.

You’ve probably heard about the Google Home and Amazon Echo devices ― the latter of which is commonly referred to as “Alexa” ― and you may be wondering what they’re all about. Essentially, they’re smart speakers that respond to your voice for hands-free help around the house. They can do anything from answer random questions to recite the day’s weather to play music and control a home’s smart lights (which are exactly what they sound like). While these speakers obviously aren’t necessary for daily life, tech enthusiasts say they’re fun gadgets to have around and can become fairly indispensable once you start using them. 

Here’s what you need to know: 

There are two main smart speakers: Amazon Echo and Google Home.

The Amazon Echo is the original smart speaker, which Amazon first released in 2015. The small, cylindrical device is designed to sit on your countertop or bookshelf, and the voice that comes out of it is called Alexa. (The voice that comes out of the Google Home speaker is named, much less affectionately, “Google Assistant.”) 

Amazon Echo, regularly $99.99. 

HuffPost consulted four tech experts, who said the Echo shines in its ability to control smart home devices like smart lights, smart thermostats and smart door locks. You can turn on the lights with your voice or unlock the front door by asking Alexa to do so, for example. (Of course, this involves owning smart lights, thermostats or door locks in the first place.) However, the Echo isn’t so great at answering everyday questions like “What movies came out recently?” The Echo integrates with Amazon products like Amazon Fire TV, and of course it lets you order stuff from Amazon directly with your voice. 

Google released its Google Home smart speaker last fall, making it the newer kid on the block. (Apple will release its own smart speaker next year, but that’s another story.) As the Echo integrates with Amazon products, so the Google Home integrates with Google: You can vocally control your Chromecast TV, use Google Search and access your Google Calendar and Gmail, though experts say those last two functions could use some work. It can’t control as many smart home devices as the Echo, nor does it do so as efficiently. It also has fewer “apps” than the Echo, something we’ll get to later, but the experts we spoke with said its setup is significantly simpler

Google Home, regularly $129. 

Smart speakers aren’t must-haves, but they’re definitely fun. 

“Right now, you definitely don’t need one,” said David Pierce, a senior writer at Wired who has reviewed both the Google Home Mini and Amazon Echo Show. “But you should get one! Once you get used to all the small things they can do, like play music or tell you the weather or convert tablespoons to cups while you’re mid-recipe, it’s hard to go back ... They’re playthings. But they’re fun, useful, awesome, maybe slightly privacy-problematic playthings.”

And truly, neither Amazon nor Google’s gadget is “better,” according to our experts, though one might be a better fit for a given user. 

“Both speakers perform different tasks really well and really poorly,” said Alex Hernandez, editor-in-chief of tech site Techaeris. “It will come down to what you want to do with your smart speaker.”

Here’s a breakdown of each speaker’s biggest strengths, per the experts’ opinions.

  • Amazon Echo is great at controlling your smart home.

The Echo “can control a wider range of smart home devices” than Google Home, said Alex Cranz, senior reviews editor at Gizmodo.

That is, of course, if you have smart home devices to control.

  • Google Home is great at answering your questions.

Our experts agree that Google Home’s main draw is its ability to answer complex questions like “What were last week’s lottery numbers?” 

Google Home is “supremely smart thanks to Google’s dominance in search,” said Nick Pino, a senior editor at TechRadar. “It can tell you things like how much airplane tickets cost, or when movies, games or music originally came out ... Alexa pretty frequently doesn’t know how to answer your questions.”

Plus, they say Google Home is better at understanding your voice.

With Echo, “you have to be very specific in how you word your requests, and they can often come out sounding like word salad. You can be much more natural speaking to the Google Home,” Cranz said.

  • Amazon Echo has more “apps.”

While Google Home has a more basic set of functions ― turning on the TV, playing music and the like ― you can expand your Amazon Echo’s abilities by selectively enabling a whole slew of “skills,” like reading your Twitter feed aloud and ordering Domino’s pizza on command.

“[Echo] has some really fun games and apps,” Pierce said. It’s also “awesome for buying the random junk you always forget to buy at the grocery store because you can just yell, ‘Alexa, buy more toilet paper!’ from the bathroom.”

  • Google Home has easier setup.

Because of its more streamlined function, the editors we consulted said Google Home has an easier setup process and less complexity overall, which may be a draw for some users. 

With the Echo, “it takes a lot of work to enable all the skills you need to do all the fun stuff,” Pierce said.

Ultimately, our experts did prefer one gadget over another.

The two are similar in price: Amazon Echo normally retails for $99.99, and Google Home is $129. (This year’s best Black Friday sales bring the prices down to $79.99 and $79 respectively, making them essentially equal.) Each of our experts said it was a tough call, but in the end, three of the four say they prefer Google Home, at least with the functionalities each device has right now. 

“Google Home is the better choice for me personally because I want my [artificial intelligence] to give me answers to questions, and I don’t have a huge amount of smart devices I need to control,” Hernandez said.

However, that doesn’t mean it’ll be true for you, too. When deciding between the speakers, Pierce said you should think about whether you favor Amazon products (like Amazon Fire TV and Amazon.com) or Google products (like Chromecast and Gmail) in your daily life. 

“Whichever one you buy, you’re kind of buying into an entire lifestyle,” he said. “So: Are you a Google Person or an Amazon Person? That’s really the choice you’re making.”

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Uma Thurman Issues Ominous #MeToo Warning To Harvey Weinstein

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Uma Thurman had a cryptic message for her followers Thursday when she posted a Thanksgiving message to her Instagram account

“I said I was angry recently, and I have a few reasons, #metoo, in case you couldn’t tell by the look on my face,” she wrote, referencing her response to the sexual assault and harassment allegations leveled at disgraced Hollywood film producer Harvey Weinstein.

“I feel it’s important to take your time, be fair, be exact so... Happy Thanksgiving Everyone!” she added. ”(Except you Harvey, and all your wicked conspirators - I’m glad it’s going slowly - you don’t deserve a bullet) - stay tuned.”

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Multiple women came forward in bombshell reports in the New York Times and the New Yorker magazine accusing Weinstein of rape, sexual assault and harassment spanning decades. Weinstein has been unceremoniously banned from many of the Hollywood institutions he used to lead, including his eponymous production company.

The LAPD and NYPD have opened probes into his prior behavior, and some of Weinstein’s accusers have joined a class-action lawsuit claiming the producer’s company helped cover up his alleged crimes. The fall-out from the accusations also led women to come forward with sexual misconduct allegations against other powerful men, in industries including entertainment, media, politics and sports.

Earlier this month, Thurman’s response to the Weinstein allegations went viral after she told an Access Hollywood reporter that she didn’t have a “tidy soundbite” to share at the time.

“I’ve been waiting to feel less angry, and when I’m ready, I’ll say what I have to say,” Thurman said. 

Based on her latest Instagram post, it looks like Thurman may be ready soon. As she said, stay tuned.

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For Flight Attendants, Sexual Assault Isn't Just Common, It's Almost A Given

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Flight attendant Caroline Bright was kicking off her last shift of the day when she realized one of the pilots on board reminded her of someone. 

“I was trying to figure it out, was it a celebrity?” she told HuffPost. “Who does he remind me of?” He looked like her dad, she realized. 

“When we landed and were waiting for the van to the hotel, I told him I’d figured it out,” she said. ”I told him, ‘You look like just my dad.’ I had a picture of him on my phone, which I showed to the first officer. ‘Doesn’t he look just like my dad?’” she recalled asking him. ”‘I think they look so similar.’”

The pilot’s response? ”‘It’s been a long time since a girl like you called me daddy,’” she said. 

“I felt so grossed out. I turned and looked at the officer and gave him an expression like, ‘What just happened?’ And he just looked at me and shrugged. I remember thinking at the time that I must have said something inappropriate.”

Based on accounts shared with HuffPost from both current and former flight attendants, Bright’s story is among many instances of sexual harassment and assault in the skies. As more and more stories of sexual assault across industries come to the forefront, it’s impossible to ignore the dynamics of the airline industry, which are inherently gendered with origins in the sexualization of women.

From unwanted advances to groping and forced physical contact, assault and harassment are realities seemingly accepted as commonplace by the flight attendants we spoke with, all of whom attested to various levels of unwanted physical contact during their time on the job. 

It’s what drives some people, like former flight attendant Lanelle Henderson, out. 

Henderson worked for now-defunct Kiwi Airlines in the ’90s and again for a little under a year for now-defunct Airtran in 2004. She told HuffPost that it was her experience in the 2000s that turned her off from remaining in the industry.

Once, a male passenger who’d been drinking began making advances toward her throughout a flight to Dallas–Fort Worth, she told HuffPost. 

“He would first grab my hand and compliment me, which in the beginning was flattering,” she said. “But then he grabbed and rubbed my leg. It was mostly embarrassing because the man behind him was looking at me as if to say, ‘What are you going to do?’ And I was just startled and a newbie and trying to be polite.”  

Henderson aboard an AirTrain flight during training for her time as a flight attendant for the airline in 2004.

Henderson said that the customer blocked her in the galley from moving between cabins. He eventually grabbed her butt. “The man behind him said, ‘Sir, enough already. This girl is not here for your pleasure.’” she said.

Flight attendants told HuffPost that the “customer is always right” attitude mandated by much of the service industry often prevents many flight attendants from confronting in-flight harassment themselves, Henderson said. 

They’re not going to stop the plane. And then everyone’s going to be mad at you; you’re not a team player, you’re difficult.

Dawn Arthur also became disillusioned during eight years working as a flight attendant in both the commercial and private sector. 

“I was really excited [before I became a flight attendant],” she said. “I thought it was so cool. But then you find out that there is no support in the industry. The pilots aren’t trained to handle assault and they don’t want to hear it. It’s not their job.”

Arthur, who told HuffPost she’s been “pushed into a corner and felt up” by passengers, said flight attendants may feel discouraged from taking action in order to avoid an in-flight delay or disturbance.

“If someone grabs you or threatens you, nothing is going to happen. They’re on a tight timetable. They’re not going to stop the plane. And then everyone’s going to be mad at you; you’re not a team player, you’re difficult.”

If there is a trend of keeping assault to oneself in the airline industry, former flight attendant Mandalena Lewis has broken it in a big way. She has not only spoken about her own alleged assault but is in the midst of a lawsuit against her former employer, Canadian airline WestJet, in part, she said, for firing her as a result.

According to Lewis, the company neglected to adequately handle not only her experience with sexual assault in 2010, but with a group of women she is now representing in her case. 

Lewis recounted her assault to HuffPost, which happened during a layover in Maui in 2010. She said the incident ultimately led her to firing and discovery of other women who made claims against the same pilot who she said attacked her.

“We were on a layover in Maui, and the whole crew went out for dinner and drinks, totally standard,” she said. “The captain invited people up to his room. It was my second year of being a flight attendant and I was down to go up to the room and have a drink. I ended up going by myself. The first officer’s room was right next door and their door was open a bit.”

Lewis said the pilot had been acting “very father-like” up until that point, when the two of them went on the balcony. “There was nothing inappropriate and I didn’t send him any signals,” she said. “On the balcony, he started asking me really inappropriate questions: do I touch myself privately, do I masturbate, things like that.” 

Lewis outside of a Vancouver court during the strike hearing.

When she turned to leave, that’s when she said the pilot started to attack her. “It started almost like horseplay, gradually becoming more aggressive,” she said. Lewis said he attacked her three times. The first and second involved grabbing her from behind, squeezing her arms and commenting on how strong she was.

“The third time, he grabbed me and put me on the bed and got between my legs,” she said. “He touched my face and told me I wanted it and how strong I was.” 

Lewis said she got her heels underneath him and kicked him off of her. “He fell backward into the TV stand. I was shaking, tears were coming down my face.” Lewis said that the airline took her off of flights with the pilot but did not take action to fire him. 

It was in 2015 when she says she spoke up about the lack of training surrounding sexual assault during a crew resource management class. She said her concerns were brushed off by the person leading the training, but there were a few people who came over afterward and thanked her for speaking out.

“A few months later, I was on a layover in Toronto and I got a Facebook message from a woman who told me she was in the room during the training,” she said. “She asked if she could call me to tell me her story.”  

“Sure enough, she told me that she was raped in 2008 by the same pilot. We didn’t know each others’ stories and we didn’t know each other,” she said.

Lewis told HuffPost both hired lawyers pretty quickly after that, but the other woman later settled with the company. “We dropped the class-action suit and I went forward as an individual case for wrongful dismissal and negligence” in early 2016.

The airline has disputed the claims — as recently as Nov. 9, saying employees should be bringing their cases “to human rights tribunals and workers’ compensation boards instead” of filing a lawsuit, according to Global News. Robert Palmer, manager of public relations for WestJet, declined to comment on “ongoing legal proceedings,” but said the company is “committed to fostering a harassment-free workplace where all employees are treated with respect and dignity.”

While the demographics for flight attendants vary slightly by airline and have shifted over the years, the industry is still majority female ― about 80 percent. But men in the field say they’ve also dealt with unwanted advances. 

A male JetBlue flight attendant, who spoke on the condition of anonymity, told HuffPost he has been grabbed inappropriately multiple times by both men and women. Passengers commonly make comments referring to the mile-high club and “getting him in the back of the plane.” 

In the event that a situation escalates, flight crew can notify the pilot, who will decide whether it is necessary to take action, either by speaking to the passenger themselves or, in extreme cases, removing the person from the flight. “Ten out of 10 times they have our side, but diverting and removing a person from the flight is obviously our last option,” he said. 

For the people we spoke to, shrugging inappropriate behavior off had become commonplace. Many said even if they wanted to do something about it, the training isn’t there. 

Sara Nelson is the international president of the Association of Flight Attendants-CWA as well as a 21-year flight attendant with United Airlines. She told HuffPost that in her experience ― along with the experience of some of the 50,000 flight attendants across the 20 airlines the association represents ― there is no exact protocol on how to handle it. 

“There is very little training. It’s nonexistent, actually,” she said. “There is training on how to handle assault and aggressive behavior on a plane, but there is no recognition of sexual assault as a unique crime.”

Sara Nelson, international president of the Association of Flight Attendants-CWA and a 21-year United Airlines flight attendant. 

She added that for a flight attendant tasked with getting a job done, it’s easier to just keep things moving than to confront a passenger or bring it to the pilot’s attention. 

“One, it’s a confined space, where flight attendants are charged with de-escalating conflict every single day,” she said. “I had a conversation with a group of flight attendants ranging from six months seniority to 10 years on Friday and the conversation basically was, ‘We have to de-escalate everything and sometimes I just choose not to say anything.’ ‘If someone grabs my butt or pulls me onto their lap, I tell them to knock it off and keep going.’”

If allegations in other industries have pushed the conversation forward to put an end to assault, it has also emboldened people who Nelson say feel like they’re “out of the public eye” in the air.

“A flight attendant relayed a situation this week where a guy in the last few rows spoke up and said, ‘When can we get some drinks around here, honey?’” she said. While the flight attendant was still in earshot, Nelson said he loudly added, “‘You can probably get sued for calling someone honey nowadays,’” laughing with the men sitting around him. 

Nelson told HuffPost she thinks things have perhaps gotten worse since she started in 1996, due to planes these days being more crowded than ever and equipped with less staff. “In a casual request from our membership about what’s happening today on the plane, we were barraged with examples,” she said. 

Flight attendants who worked in the ’60s and ’70s might argue the notion that it is worse, now, though. A Facebook group titled Stewardesses of the 1960s and 1970s, which boasts more than 9,000 members, has a recently posted thread asking members about sexual assault that currently has more than 400 comments.

In spite of the frequency of sexual assault in the air, Nelson told HuffPost that she thinks the CEOs of airlines (most of whom are men) would be “shocked” to find out what’s going on on their planes.

“Men don’t think about this stuff,” she said. “It’s not their experience. They have no idea what it’s like. And even if they are someone who doesn’t participate, I bet if these men are really going to be honest, even the ones who would never do it themselves, have absolutely been sitting there and have done nothing while it’s happening.”

Still, Nelson has hope. “Any time an issue is raised, there is opportunity for change, but I think we are just at the very beginning of the conversation here,” she said, adding, “It doesn’t have to be this way. The more we talk about it and say it’s not OK, the better it will get.”  

Sara Nelson speaks during a Senate Commerce, Science, and Transportation subcommittee hearing in Washington, D.C. in May, 2017. 
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‘Call Me By Your Name’ And The Bittersweet Beauty Of Queer Cinema

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Armie Hammer and Timothée Chalamet in

Call Me by Your Name” is, at first, a movie about looking. From his bedroom window, the scholarly 17-year-old Elio (Timothée Chalamet) watches as Oliver (Armie Hammer), a poised 24-year-old graduate student, arrives in the fertile Italian countryside ― another visitor, there for another lethargic summer. Upon meeting, Elio leads Oliver up a winding staircase and into the room where he will sleep for the next six weeks. Their interactions are as lukewarm as the wide shots that frame them. Exhausted after traveling from America, Oliver doesn’t want dinner, and he doesn’t seem anxious to make a new friend, either. He’s snoring almost as quickly as Elio points to his bed.

There’s a trigger in the teenager’s eyes, though ― a confusion, perhaps a spark of interest. Even when the scene lingers on Elio’s face, it’s hard to discern his exact thoughts, which is fitting; it’s hard for Elio to discern Elio’s exact thoughts, too.

And then the day dawns, the light of morning bringing clarity, maybe. Sunshine beams across the lush lawn as Oliver joins Elio and his parents for breakfast, untutored in the ways of soft-boiled eggs and village geography. Elio peers across the table. The camera mimics his eyes, landing on a small, silver Star of David dangling from Oliver’s neck, shown in sudden close-up and framed by the V of his unbuttoned collar. A pang of desire ripples across the screen, announcing Elio’s quiet enchantment.

This is a familiar sensation for queer people all too acquainted with the psychological warfare waged by the closet, which often ensures that adolescent glances remain just that. Hollywood’s fraught relationship with gay tenderness is slowly evolving, as evidenced in “Call Me by Your Name,” the adaptation of André Aciman’s lauded 2007 novel. Opening in limited release on Friday and primed for the ongoing Oscar derby, Luca Guadagnino’s sensual film uses the torturous politics of the closet as a backdrop, but more than most of the queer cinema that has preceded it, his also clings delicately to the celebration of first love. It doubles down on two recent movies that won similar critical admiration: 2015′s “Carol” and 2016′s “Moonlight.” 

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In some regards, it’s unfair to compare these three films when so many of their specifics are different. “Carol” revolves around two white women in cloistered 1950s New York, “Moonlight” chronicles a black boy hardening into adulthood in contemporary inner-city Miami, and “Call Me by Your Name” concerns erudite globetrotters in 1983, when Reagan conservatism was sweeping America. But together they are paragons exemplifying the framework that now bolsters gay romance on the big screen. None of the central characters die; no one is abjectly punished for their desires. Each movie ends with a twinkle of bittersweet hope ― something that can’t be said for most queer stories throughout history, even excellent ones like “Brokeback Mountain,” “Philadelphia,” “A Single Man,” “Heavenly Creatures” and “My Own Private Idaho.”

“Call Me by Your Name,” “Moonlight” and “Carol” boast another similarity: They do not spoon-feed emotions to their audience. There is no grand swoon or quirky meet-cute that unites Elio and Oliver, nor Chiron (played as an adult by Trevante Rhodes) and Kevin (André Holland) in “Moonlight,” nor Carol (Cate Blanchett) and Therese (Rooney Mara) in “Carol.” Each courtship builds slowly, through glances. What isn’t said is often more important than what is. Most flirtations are clandestine anyway: a kiss stolen near a private lake, a beachside encounter late at night, a road trip removed from any familiar faces. For these characters, romance operates in tandem with, and as a result of, self-discovery. Because the movies depart from predictable Hollywood norms, they’ve been erroneously labeled “cold.” 

“Dominant culture needs emotional translation for certain kinds of stories that aren’t their own, and to feel stroked and emotionally protected and given the right kind of recipe of emotional reactions,” Todd Haynes, the director of “Carol,” told HuffPost last month. “If it’s not given to them, it’s cult. It’s like, ‘I will feel for these characters if I have a customary, expected reaction, but if I’m not getting it, then it’s a problem.’ We all have to feed dominant society to make it feel better.”

Elio and Oliver’s affair peaks only when the end of the summer nears. Oliver, the pupil of Elio’s academic father (Michael Stuhlbarg), who facilitates an annual internship at the family’s villa in northern Italy, has been careful not to overextend his welcome. “If you only knew how little I know about the things that matter,” Elio tells Oliver, finally hinting that the thing he knows least is how to express his attraction. That crucial sentence recalls Carol’s sentiment toward Therese: “What a strange girl you are, flung out of space.” And it invokes a teenage Chiron, speaking to Kevin in the gleam of twilight: “I wanna do a lot of things that don’t make sense.”

These lyrical words form the essence of these stories, just as they outline the essence of every gay person’s subdued cravings. Nothing makes sense, especially when it’s buried in cloaked glimpses at breakfast tables. 

“I knew the emotional journey they were going through,” Guadagnino, known for epicurean dramas like “I Am Love” and “A Bigger Splash,” told Deadline. “Butterflies in the stomach is the most beautiful feeling you can feel, no?”

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The characters in “Call Me by Your Name,” “Moonlight” and “Carol” can’t appear outside their crush’s window, like Shakespeare’s Romeo or like John Cusack in “Say Anything.” They won’t crash a wedding to prove their devotion, à la Dustin Hoffman in “The Graduate.” Nor will there be impassioned speeches about true love, as in “Notting Hill” or “Casablanca” or “When Harry Met Sally” or “Pride and Prejudice.” No corny cue cards, no “you complete me.” Those gestures are too overt, too public.

Instead, devotion crescendoes in tiny increments. A performatively defensive Elio tells his parents it’s impolite that Oliver’s preferred adieu is an offhand “later!” At a nightclub, his eyes stay glued on Oliver dancing with a woman. He scribbles notes that say things like “can’t stand the silence.” He pops up from a lake wearing Oliver’s Star of David around his neck. On average, these signifiers would be grander in a tale of heterosexual love, where best friends can agonize over will-they, won’t-they predicaments, and sages can help to galvanize a budding pursuit. 

Because the wait was tortuous, there are few swoons as powerful as that of Elio and Oliver’s first kiss, planted after Elio decides he can’t settle for underhanded flirtations any longer. And there’s no finale like the finale of “Carol,” in which Carol smiles softly as Therese glides toward her, confirming that, yes, they’ll give the relationship a shot after all, despite so many cultural roadblocks. Borrowing the subtle language of queer yearning, these personifications of self-acceptance spark some of the most moving moments in modern cinema.

“When those two characters hug for the first time in the [third chapter of ‘Moonlight,’] you can see Trevante’s hand linger on the back of André Holland’s shirt,” director Barry Jenkins told HuffPost last year. “You can get right in there to see how mesmerizing and terrifying it is for Chiron to finally look this guy in the eye after 10 years. [...] It was really important to me to just show the tenderness. [...] There was something about the nature of this environment and the corporeal quality of two men touching each other.”

Even as more same-sex pairings touch each other onscreen, gay visibility is still a battlefield. It’s telling that only one queer movie per year breaks through the indie noise. In 2017 alone, the collective attention paid to “Beach Rats,” “Battle of the Sexes,” “BPM (Beats Per Minute),” “God’s Own Country,” “Princess Cyd” and “Thelma” trails that of “Call Me by Your Name,” which was anointed the chosen one after its rosy Sundance premiere in January. Even so, these films ― including the AIDS-themed “BPM” ― sculpt characters who refuse to be victims. 

To wit, “Call Me by Your Name” is about the beauty of exploration. “We wasted so many days,” Elio tells Oliver after their mutual endearment has fully blossomed. The closet robbed them of their already limited time together. As Sufjan Stevens sings in “Mystery of Love,” a ballad featured in the movie, “How much sorrow can I take? / Blackbird on my shoulder / And what difference does it make / When this love is over?” The summer must end, and heartbreak will follow. But that intoxicating enchantment is forever. In many ways, the story is just beginning. Everything’s an aching close-up.

“Call Me by Your Name” opens in limited release Nov. 24. It expands to additional theaters throughout December and January.

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Vasco Da Gama-Patna Express Jumps Rails In UP; 3 Dead, 9 Injured

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At least three people were dead and nine left injured after thirteen coaches of the Vasco Da Gama-Patna express jumped the rails near Manikpur railway station in Uttar Pradesh today.

Confirming the casualties, Chitrakoot SP Pratap Gopendra Singh said a father-son duo from Bettiah district of Bihar died on the spot while the third person died at a hospital.

"Of those injured, two were serious and admitted to district hospital, Chitrakoot. Seven with minor injuries are being treated at Manikpur," Singh said.

The Patna-bound Vasco Da Gama Express (12741) derailed at 4:18 am, soon after leaving platform number 2 of the Manikpur railway station in Chitrakoot district, about 250 km from Lucknow, he said.

According to ADG (Law and Order), Anand Kumar, prima facie it appears that fractured railway track is the cause of accident as per local assessment.

Providing a breakup of the derailed coaches, North Central Railway PRO Amit Malviya said, the coaches which jumped off the rails were coaches numbered S3-S11, two general coaches and two extra coaches.

"The injured have been rushed to the hospital and officials have left for the spot. Relief operations are underway," North Central Railway PRO Amit Malviya said.

He further said that soon after the accident, a medical train reached the spot and by 5:20 am, an accident relief train was dispatched for the spot.

The divisional railway manager (DRM), Allahabad has already reached the spot while the General Manager, NCR is on his way, he said.

In the aftermath of the derailment, movement of trains was disrupted on the Patna-Allahabad route.

The train derailment in Chitrakoot comes less than 12 hours after a bolero had collided with a passenger train near Lucknow killing four and injuring two.

The Railway Ministry has announced a compensation of Rs 5 lakh for the kin of those dead and Rs 1 lakh for those with grievous injuries.

Investigate The Death Of CBI Judge Who Was Hearing The Sohrabuddin Sheikh Case, Says Justice AP Shah

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NEW DELHI, INDIA - DECEMBER 30: BJP President Amit Shah leaves after Delhi state  BJP working committee meeting at Delhi unit BJP Office on December 30, 2014 in New Delhi, India.  A special CBI court in Mumbai discharged BJP president Amit Shah from Sohrabuddin Sheikh and Tulsiram Prajapati fake encounter killing cases, holding there existed no case against him and that he had been implicated for political reasons.

In the four days since disturbing details have emerged about the death of Brijgopal Harkishan Loya, the judge who was hearing the matter of the allegedly staged encounter killing of Sohrabuddin Sheikh, only a few have spoken out on the investigation published by the Caravan.

AP Shah, the former chief justice of the Delhi High Court, told NDTV, "His family feels very strongly that there was some foul play in his death. Now there was a long list of circumstances starting from the fact that there was blood on his clothes, and somebody signed the postmortem report as it is. They feel that there is something wrong with the conclusion that he died of cardiac arrest."

Speaking to the Wire, Shah said, "It is necessary that the chief justice of the high court or the Chief Justice of India himself should look into this material and decide whether to order an enquiry, because if these allegations are not investigated it causes serious stigma on the judiciary."

In 2014, Loya presided over the special court set up by the Central Bureau of Investigation (CBI) in Mumbai to decide whether Amit Shah, then Home Minister of Gujarat and now the president of the Bharatiya Janata Party, was involved in the death of a local gangster named Sohrabuddin.

In 2012, the Supreme Court had ordered the trial to be shifted from Gujarat to Maharashtra and for one judge to hear the case from start to finish.

Loya, however, was the second judge to hear the Sohrabuddin case after judge JT Utpat was transferred in June 2015, shortly after he had admonished Shah for failing to appear in court. Six months on, Loya died and his death was reported as a heart attack. Within weeks of Loya's death, MB Gosavi, the judge who replaced him, had exonerated Shah.

The CBI had accused Shah of running an extortion racket with Sohrabuddin. But after the two allegedly fell out, the Sohrabuddin and his wife Kauser Bi were picked by the Gujarat's Anti-Terrorist Squad on November 22, 2005 and they were killed in a staged gun battle near Gandhinagar. His aide Tulsiram Prajapati, a key witness in the case, was allegedly shot dead by the Gujarat police in December 2006.

In 2015, Rubabuddin Sheikh, Sohrabuddin's brother had moved the Bombay High Court against the CBI order acquitting Shah. But then, at the end of the year, Rubabuddin informed the court that he was voluntarily withdrawing his plea against Shah. "I am mentally troubled and feeling helpless. That's why I have decided to withdraw. I can't say anything more," he told the Hindu at the time.

Meanwhile, the case against 22 persons, accused of murder, abduction and destruction of evidence, continues in the CBI special court.

The Caravan investigation, published earlier this week, pointed out several inconsistencies regarding Loya's death including the condition in which is body was returned to his family.

On November 30, 2014, Loya was in Nagpur attending a wedding. At 11 pm, he phoned his wife on his mobile phone and spoke to her for around 40 minutes. On the morning of December 1, 2014, the family was informed of his death from an Rashtriya Swayamsevak Sangh (RSS) worker named Ishwar Baheti. To this day, the family does not know how Baheti came to know about the judge's death and why he was involved in moving the body to the judge's native village of Gategaon.

It was Baheti, not the police, who returned Loya's mobile phone to his family, three to four days after his death.

The family was also shocked that Loya's body was accompanied only by the ambulance driver, with neither of the two judges, who had insisted that he come with them to Nagpur for the wedding, making it to Gategaon.

Then, there was condition of the body. Anuradha Biyani, the judge's sister, told reporter Niranjan Takle that she felt that something was amiss when she saw the body, which had bloodstains on the neck and at the back of the shirt. Biyani's diary entry from the time reads: "There was blood on his collar. His belt was twisted in the opposite direction, and the pant clip is broken. Even my uncle feels that this is suspicious."

In the post-mortem report, issued by the Government Medical College Hospital in Nagpur, the condition of clothes was described as "dry."

The time of death also raises questions. The Caravan report pointed out that time of death on Loya's post mortem report said 6:15 am, but his family members had started receiving calls about his demise at 5:00 am on December 1. People at the Nagpur's Government Medical College and Sitabardi police station told Takle that they had been informed of Loya's death by midnight and they had seen the body during the night.

The judge's sister, Biyani, told Takle that Loya had told her about Mohit Shah, the the chief justice of the Bombay High Court, offering him a bribe of ₹100 crore in return for a favourable judgment. According to Biyani, Mohit Shah "would call him late at night to meet in civil dress and pressure him to issue the judgment as soon as possible and to ensure that it is a positive judgment."

Loya's father Harkishan said that his son had refused to succumb to bribes like "Do you want a house in Mumbai, how much land do you want, how much money do you want, he used to tell us this. This was an offer."

In a Facebook post published on Wednesday, Vinod K Jose, executive editor of the Caravan, commented on the limited coverage the news magazine's investigation has received from the mainstream media.

"When English press and urbanite intellectuals shy away, language press, just like the time of the British, shows much more boldness. Mathrubhumi, with histories intertwining with freedom movement, and sells today 1.5 million copies has the story on the front page. Then for Deshabhimani and Madhyamam it is really the biggest news. And Manorama covered it yesterday and today. Kannada, Tamil too followed. Gujarati I hear one did. But the quietness of the English and the Hindi press makes us worry for India, he wrote.

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